General Relationship | Conscious Relationship Seminars and Podcast

Addressing Relationship Energy Drainers

dillon — With Ilene Dillon, MSW, MFT, LCSW

Do you know that the way a relationship starts off, it tends to continue?

Too often we spend weeks or months in a relationship, only to find it is not working for us because we feel drained, guilty, very angry, or “used” in the relationship.

You can save yourself time, energy, and pain by learning to recognize immediately when your energy is being drained and what you can do about it. Whether you have a penchant for attracting energy draining individuals or you experience energy draining only occasionally, you’ll appreciate having readily-available tools for dealing with this all-too-common relationship challenge.

In this program you will learn:

How and why energy draining occurs
6 ways to immediately recognize when your energy is being drained.
Two prominent patterns of energy draining.
Three actions you can take to neutralize energy draining from others.
How to utilize the 72-Hour Rule to strengthen yourself in relationships.
The D.E.S.C. Plus-A-Step method for communicating powerfully.

The Chemistry of Love

Pioneering anthropologist Dr. Helen Fisher shares her as-yet-unpublished research (unless you count. Oprah Magazine and Psychology Today) proposing Four Psychological Types, the neuro-chemicals that determine each type, and the role of these four types in relationship compatibility.

Dr. Fisher proposes that humans have evolved four very broad basic biological personality profiles:

Explorer
Builder
Negotiator
Director

Dr. Fisher’s research shows that each type corresponds with variations in the neural systems for dopamine, serotonin, estrogen and testosterone. Each biological type is predisposed to think and act in predictable ways.

In this program you learn:

Four love types found in all romantic relationships
The role of neuro-chemicals in determining each type
Compatibility strengths and weaknesses of each type in long-term relationships
How to determine your Love Type

Which types you’re compatible with and how to spot them

Check out Dr. Fisher’s great books!

Overcoming the Three Core Beliefs That Guarantee Relationship Failure

If you have even one of these beliefs your relationships don’t stand more than a 5% chance of success. It’s not what you consciously think that determines the quality of your relationships, but what you subconsciously believe. Until you are able to observe the hidden thoughts, beliefs and feelings that occupy your subconscious mind, and learn to change them, you are doomed to continue repeating the same old patterns in your relationships.

Paul and Layne share intimately about how they transformed their own unhappy relationships into a lasting, loving, mutually empowering personal and professional partnership that has lasted thirty years. If you ever wonder why your relationships don’t last or seem to work out, you will want to hear what Layne and Paul have to say.

In this program you learn:

How to access your subconscious mind to root out self-sabotage
How to avoid getting sucked into the abyss of endless “processing”
Why you need direct access to your Superconscious mind and how to get it
The truth about affirmations and why they often don’t work for people
And much more . . .

(61 minutes)